I am grateful to the Almighty for the growth that I have made.
I arrived home happily from two wonderful yoga classes and all my errands.
He was ready to begin again.
I had to lay it out for him in the quiet and small voice that I have perfected just for him. I told him that years ago I participated in these "tennis match" conversations which went nowhere. I have outgrown them. I told him that if he has nothing to say he can be quiet. I would not participate in the game anymore.
If he doesn't want a condo, that's fine with me. If he doesn't want vacations that is also fine with me.
I basically took away all his leverage. How sad!!!!
His solution was to take a nap. After all, if you can't bully you need to hide.
Thank you, Almighty for my growth.
I am grateful!!!!
Later- He certainly screwed up his dinner. He had no real plan, just to frustrate. With that in mind, I suggested that I have Japanese food and he have yogurt. It work and I had a wonderful dinner.
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