I pulled off a good Seder by keeping my eyes down in the Hagaddah. I didn't look at anything that they were doing so I could enjoy the Seder. I am grateful that I thought this up. At Seder's end, I poured out all the wine that they wouldn't drink. Drinking is just for bars, I guess!!!
This morning, I made a pot of decaf. They wanted regular. Rather than get into a confrontation, I decided to set the table for a second Seder and told him to pour the entire pot out and make what they wanted.
I stayed home from services because I know that he would assist them in treffing the house.
I watched him do his act. Dressed, friendly, sitting with them. Think of all the days that I have been ignored. But, that was the act that I fell for. I was glad to see it again because then I knew that I wasn't crazy.
That is when the plan came to me that I am so grateful for. I would do all the things that I do and not get involved with them. Why hurt myself??? I have planned fun things for myself this week, as my vacation and I intend to have a vacation.
Thank you, Almighty for that vision.
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