My silence is not sitting well with him. How can he verbally abuse me if I'm quiet? This really bothers him. However, as I said to him, a couple needs to have pleasant conversation. Ours was based on upsetting me. Since I'm now quiet, that had to end. He's not happy.
He also spoke about NOT going on vacation. I've already booked a course in a hotel for 2 weekends and I decided after this nice holiday weekend to go to Kirpala with the older one. That's a vacation that I can enjoy!!!
The amazing thing is that now that I'm practicing silence, I have so much time to enjoy the things that I love.
I am though. I'm grateful to the Almighty for the insight.
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