I had a wonderful weekend!!! By myself! With myself!!! Nothing that he said or did bothered me. I knew everything that he was going to do or say.
For example, I knew to put my chair in the front after services to get color because people were around and he wouldn't open his mouth like he could do in the back. I was right, but you could see how upset he was not to upset me. I'VE GOTTEN USED TO SILENCE ON THE OTHER HAND AND WAITED FOR A TOPIC THAT DIDN'T PRESENT ITSELF.
I set out things that I wanted to do and did them quietly. I was so relaxed.
Even when we went to dinner on Sunday night, because I politically had to do something with him, I knew how to act. I didn't answer when he told me that he should have died. I knew that this was to upset me. He doesn't say this to others. Then he said that his brother's wife saved his life. I didn't answer. I knew where it was going.
It's as if I memorized his script.
I am grateful to the Almighty for success.
I know this is true because today is Monday, and I feel spiritually relaxed. I now have a plan to survive. I'm grateful to the Almighty for the insight.
More to follow later...........
Now, I'm at work. I'm relaxed because the weekend was a good one for me.
I am grateful to the Almighty, but I NOW KNOW THE STRATEGIES TO USE!!!!!
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