I am grateful to the Almighty because He made me a strong and capable woman. I will meet every challenge with a smile.
I had a wonderful weekend that I created for myself. It culminated in me getting a manicure with yoga symbols on it.
"A" couldn't take it anymore and he actually tried to start one of his arguments with me. I could have walked out of the room. However, this time I chose to tell him that I would not be bullied. I used my quiet little voice. I only spoke for a short period of time. I told him again that life was like a time line and that I wouldn't waste mine doing this. He said that we were very different and I agreed. I said quietly that if he had told me the truth about himself, we would never have been together. I said that since he said "No" to all of my suggestions, I took my older daughters suggestion and found a life. He needed to do the same.
I know that he can't. I didn't smile outwardly, but inwardly. His idea of a life is to bully me. That isn't going to happen. These discussions won't happen except like yesterday for a few minutes at the end of a wonderful weekend that I created. He needed to know that I won't be bullied, or change or live in fear of him.
Tonight, I chose to stay home and read my incredible new book.
Thank you Almighty for making me strong and capable!!!
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